

If your intuition or gut tells you that the other person is lying, then well, listen to your gut or your intuition. But if you’re fine with just sex, then there’s nothing wrong with that. If the other person is unwilling to have such a conversation, then I recommend only having sex with them if you’re okay with never seeing them again afterwards.

But if your desires are incompatible, I recommend simply not sleeping with that person. Or if you both are genuinely open to the possibility of becoming friends-with-benefits or starting a relationship in the future, then great. If you both just want to have sex once and are both okay with potentially never seeing the other person again afterwards, then great. Once you know this, I would recommend making sure that the other person is on the same page. If you sleep with this person once and then never see them again, will that be okay for you? If not, are you looking to become friends-with-benefits with this person? Or do you want a full romantic relationship with them? Something else?

So I would recommend checking in with yourself before you have sex with someone. Or if you want a serious relationship and they want to have sex once and then never see you again, then I would not have sleep with them. The other big risk is that you have sex with someone whom you want to be with, more than they want to be with you.įor example, if you think they are the hottest person you’ve ever seen, while they think you’re average and they just want to get laid, then I would not sleep with them. You are already aware of this risk and I do not really have anything to add to how you can avoid this, other than “listen to your intuition.” So, what are the primary ways in which you can get hurt when engaging in casual sex? Well, one of them is being assaulted. This message applies to both men and women. Therefore today I would like to talk about how to have it without getting damaged by it. That said, Earthlings do have a point that casual sex can be bad for you, if you do it carelessly. But on the other hand, why would your creator have instilled in you the desire to have casual sex, if this was bad for you? Also, we Pleiadians are not damaged by it. Today I would like to talk about my favorite subject: sex.Ī lot of people on Earth have the opinion that lots of casual sex is bad for people.
